It all fit nicely.
A couple pictures of us at our evening happy hours.
I love this picture, but the lighting was kind of funky--overlooking the ocean and sunset.
Two flattering things happened to me on the cruise. The first one was when I was waiting at the bar to order a drink. A guy said, “The pretty lady should go first!” Now, I cannot recall the last time someone called me “pretty.” It was quite flattering at 70 years old, even if:
- The guy was “old” (although he might have been younger than me)
- He could be a “player” and says that kind of stuff all the time, or
- He needed to have his eyesight checked.
So given all of those caveats, it could very well have been a fluke. Until—the next day when I was minding my own business and reading in the Sky Lounge. A woman walked up and sat down in the chair next to me—even though I was the only one there. She could easily have chosen some other place. I couldn’t believe she sat right next to me! She made some comment about the yucky day. I agreed, but didn’t really engage. I was in the middle of a good book and just wanted to enjoy the peace and quiet. On a cruise ship with 3000 people, peace and quiet is pretty hard to come by.
After a few minutes, she got up, wished me a good day and started to walk away. Then she turned around and came back. She said, “If you don’t mind me asking, are you cruising alone?” I replied, “No, I’m with my husband. He’s just out and about.” She said, “okay” and then left.
It took me a second but then I thought, “Wait! Did I just get hit on? By a woman?” I don’t think that’s ever happened to me before. It was quite flattering at 70 years old, even if:
- The gal was on the cruise as part of the other LGBTQ—and/or whatever combination of letters there are.
- She was part of the “singles” group that was on board.
- She needed to have her eyesight checked.
Still, I was flattered. I like compliments. I’m not offended by them. At.All. I mostly just think people are being nice.
Feeling pretty good about myself, I went back to our cabin and put on some make-up! Heck, I’ll do anything to keep the compliments coming!
Wow, it seems like you certainly were attracting all the attention!
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